In a country where newborns are given away, abandoned, or even murdered because they are girls, there exists a culture in which women have all of the power. In the foothills of the Chinese Himalayas rests a society like no other: Moso Country or, as the Chinese call it, "the Country of Daughters." Here women do not marry but openly choose a line of village men to father their children. In Moso Country there is no word for father, and property is passed down from mother to daughter. Marriage is considered backward. Sons spend the entirety of their lives helping to run their mothers' households, and daughters learn to become leaders and survivors. In this unique matrilineal society, on the shores of Lake Lugu in Yunan Province, China, is where Yang Erche Namu was born and raised.
Namu was known in her village as the little one whose mother tried to give her away three times because she would not stop crying. Though the Moso people embrace ideals of family harmony and sexual freedom, even in the land of women, tensions between mothers and daughters run high. The headstrong Namu had dreams for a future that reached far beyond Lake Lugu and her peasant family's poverty. Thus, when Chinese cultural officials came looking for talented singers, she seized her chance and broke one taboo that binds the Moso people-she left her mother's house to make her way to the world beyond the mountains.
A lyrical evocation of girlhood in a remote land where women truly rule, LEAVING MOTHER LAKE is as much a universal tale of mothers and daughters-the battles that drive them and the love that brings them back together-as it is an in-depth look at the norms and mores of a culture that would be unheard-of in the Western world.
ABOUT THE AUTHORS:
Yang Erche Namu, a talented singer, is widely known for her outrageous exploits, pop stardom, love affairs, outlandish fashion, and work on behalf of the Moso. She has lived all over the world and currently calls Beijing her home.
Christine Mathieu did her doctoral study in Moso culture and history. She divides her time between San Francisco and Fremantle in Western Australia.